CBT Resource Library

Therapy isn't just about talking. It's about learning practical skills. Explore these free videos and interactive tools to start applying TEAM-CBT to your daily life.

Disclaimer: Utilizing these resources is for educational and skill-building purposes only. It does not establish a therapeutic relationship and does not constitute being in therapy with Richard Lam, LMFT.

Interactive Clinical Tools

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Interactive Acceptance CBT Therapy Tool

Acceptance

Discover how self-acceptance and radical honesty can reduce anxiety and shame.

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Interactive Disarming CBT Therapy Tool

Disarming

Find a grain of truth in the other person's statements or criticisms to lower defensiveness and build trust.

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Interactive Externalization of Resistance CBT Therapy Tool

Externalization of Resistance

A motivational role-play tool to overcome the specific voices keeping you stuck.

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Interactive Externalization of Voices CBT Therapy Tool

Externalization of Voices

A role-play method to defeat your inner critic. Treat repeating negative thoughts as an external voice to effectively confront, challenge, and disarm them.

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Interactive Feared Fantasy CBT Therapy Tool

Feared Fantasy

Confront fears of what others might think. Through exaggerated roleplay, discover that anxieties are often distorted, allowing you to feel more relaxed and authentic.

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Interactive Finding a Therapist Guide

Finding a Therapist

A step-by-step guide to finding a "good-enough fit" and preparing for clinical consultations.

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Interactive Forced Empathy CBT Therapy Tool

Forced Empathy

Practice seeing the world through another's eyes to resolve interpersonal conflicts.

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Interactive Future Projection Forced Empathy CBT Tool

Future Projection Forced Empathy

Combine empathy and visualization to resolve ongoing relationship struggles.

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Interactive Future Projection for Habits CBT Therapy Tool

Future Projection for Habits

Visualize the long-term impact of your habits to boost immediate motivation.

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Interactive I Feel Statements Part 1 CBT Therapy Tool

I Feel Statements (Part 1)

Learn to express emotions in ways that invite connection rather than defensiveness.

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Interactive I Feel Statements Part 2 CBT Therapy Tool

I Feel Statements (Part 2)

Navigate the subtle line between healthy assertiveness and unintended manipulation.

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Interactive Relapse Preparation CBT Therapy Tool

Relapse Preparation

Create a proactive plan to manage future setbacks and maintain your progress.

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Interactive Relationship Journal Part 1 CBT Therapy Tool

Relationship Journal (Part 1)

Understand the conflict by clarifying the specific moment and your own internal experience.

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Interactive Relationship Journal Part 2 CBT Therapy Tool

Relationship Journal (Part 2)

Decide whether you truly want to give up blame by exploring its costs and benefits.

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Interactive Relationship Journal Part 3 CBT Therapy Tool

Relationship Journal (Part 3)

Step into the other person's shoes to break cycles of resentment through empathy.

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Interactive Relationship Journal Part 4 CBT Therapy Tool

Relationship Journal (Part 4)

Revise how you communicate to express yourself more empathetically, assertively, and respectfully.

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Interactive Stroking CBT Therapy Tool

Stroking & Validation

Create emotional safety and profound connection through genuine appreciation and respect.

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Interactive Double Standard CBT Therapy Tool

The Double Standard

Overcome harsh self-criticism by learning to treat yourself with the same kindness and empathy you would naturally offer a close friend.

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Interactive Triple Paradox CBT Therapy Tool

Triple Paradox

Explore your natural resistance to change with compassion to build powerful internal motivation.

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Clinical Skills Video Series

Watch these tools and techniques in action on the Feeling Good Therapist channel.

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